Childrens Counseling
Has your child been acting out, withdrawing, or experiencing sudden changes in mood?
Are they struggling in school, having meltdowns at home, or finding it difficult to connect with other kids?
Do you lie awake at night wondering if something more serious is going on?
Are you feeling like no matter how much you love them, you just don’t know how to help?
Are You Worried About Your Child?
As a parent, you know your child better than anyone. When something changes, it’s only natural to worry about them. You might feel confused, overwhelmed, or like you're failing as a parent. Raising children in this busy, modern society is stressful and incredibly hard. Between juggling work, your own stress, and noticing your child is struggling too, it can all feel incredibly overwhelming as a parent.
If Something Feels Off, Trust Your Gut.
Maybe you’ve tried adjusting routines, offering rewards, setting boundaries, giving them one on one time, or just giving more hugs, and none of it seems to make a difference. This doesn’t mean you are doing something wrong.
Sometimes, kids just need a space outside the family where they can safely work through their feelings. Working with a licensed professional who has experience working with children can make a huge difference for your child, especially when they don’t fully understand their own feelings yet.
You don’t have to fix everything yourself. You just have to take the first step toward getting support, for both your child and you.
Emotional and Behavioral Struggles Are More Common Than You Think.
In today’s fast-paced, ever-changing world, kids are dealing with more than ever before. Even in the best of circumstances, it’s normal for children to struggle with big feelings they don’t have the words for. These emotions can show up in tantrums, defiance, anxiety, school refusal, clinginess, and even unexplained tummy aches.
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), 1 in 6 children aged 2–8 has a diagnosed mental, behavioral, or developmental disorder, but many more go undiagnosed. They don’t understand why they are not coping well or why they are so upset over things that other kids don’t seem bothered by. quietly carrying the weight of emotional overwhelm, confusion, or stress.
At RelationshipStore, we know that early intervention can change a child’s entire life. When a child has the space and support to process what’s going on inside, they can begin to heal, grow, and develop skills they’ll carry with them for life.
How Counseling Can Help Your Child (and You) Find Relief
When your child is hurting, it hurts you too. You might feel helpless. You may blame yourself or feel unsure whether you're overreacting. That’s why counseling isn’t just about the child—it’s about supporting you as a parent, too.
At RelationshipStore, our children’s therapists specialize in working with kids ages (4-12) who are navigating a wide range of challenges. We also offer teen’s counseling for ages 13-19 if your child is in that age range instead. Whether your child is struggling from anxiety, grief, ADHD, trauma, or social difficulties, our goal is to help your child learn how to understand and manage their emotions as they move through life. Once they have these tools, they will be able to handle the stressors of life in a much easier way.
Will my child be comfortable in therapy?
Yes. We take great care to make therapy a welcoming, playful, and safe environment. Whether through games, drawing, or stories, we help kids relax and feel understood.
What if my child doesn’t want to come to therapy?
This is normal. Many kids are unsure at first. Our therapists are skilled at earning children’s trust, and often, kids quickly begin to look forward to their sessions once they feel safe.
Is therapy worth the time and money?
Absolutely. Therapy can prevent problems from getting worse, improve school performance, reduce family stress, and set your child on a healthier path forward.
Will I be updated on my child’s progress?
Yes. You will be an important part of the process. We check in regularly, answer questions, and offer guidance — while also honoring your child’s need for a private space to work through feelings.
Why Choose RelationshipStore?
We are not just therapists. We are people who genuinely care about kids and families. We understand how hard it can be to trust someone else with your child’s emotional world, and we don’t take that lightly.
Our children’s counselors are compassionate, creative, and highly trained. We use evidence-based approaches and a lot of heart to support your child and help your family reconnect and thrive. We offer flexible scheduling, because we know how busy life gets.
IT’S OKAY TO ASK FOR HELP.
You don’t have to figure it all out today. You just have to take the next step.
Contact us today for an appointment. Let’s work together to give your child the support they need and give you the peace of mind you deserve.
We offer in-person session at our practice in Burr Ridge, IL and offers online therapy sessions throughout Illinois.
What You Can Expect from Childrens Counseling with RelationshipStore
Our approach to therapy with children is warm, engaging, and focused around building a trust and positive relationship with your child. We know that children often can’t just “talk it out” the way adults can. Instead, our child therapists at RelationshipStore work through your child’s big feelings with play, art, stories, and imagination.
Here’s what our process looks like and what you can expect from child therapy at RelationshipStore.
1. Getting to Know Your Child
We start by meeting with you and your child to learn about their world. We talk about their likes, dislikes, and what’s been going on lately.
2. Creating a Personalized Plan
Based on what we learn, we design a therapy plan tailored to your child’s needs. We share this plan with you. Whether they’re dealing with fear, sadness, anger, or transitions, our goal is to help them feel safe and seen.
3. Helping Them Build Skills
Through ongoing sessions, your child will learn how to:
Identify and express feelings in healthy ways
Cope with stress and sensory overwhelm
Improve behavior through self-regulation
Strengthen communication and social skills
4. Supporting You as a Parent
We believe that parents are a vital part of the process. We offer regular check-ins, practical tools, and parenting support so you’re never left in the dark. We work to strike the right balance between protecting your child’s confidentiality and keeping you informed and empowered. We also offer one-on-one parenting sessions and can do our best to schedule this at the same time as your child’s session.
You’re Not a Bad Parent, You’re a Caring One.
One of the most difficult parts of parenting a child who is struggling is self-doubt. You may wonder:
Did I miss something important?
Is this my fault?
Am I doing enough?
Please know that seeking therapy for your child is not a sign of failure. It’s a sign of fierce love and deep strength. You are not ignoring the problem. You are not hoping it will just go away. You are actively choosing to get help, and that is something to be proud of!
